COMPARISON is the one thing which I always try to avoid, and if I do comparisons then I try to make them logical rather than emotional. But when ever we people start loosing we take refuge in lying on emotions, and that’s very obvious that no one can defeat emotions.
Coming back on to the subject, lot many times I had a debate on this & almost 90% of time it is with one of my very close & dear friend. He favors Noida & I always favors for Pune.
During debate I always emphasize on technical/financial growth, education std, cost of living, security, electricity, water; the very basic & mandatory requirement of every family. In all the above points Pune is far better than Noida. Nobody can deny this. Yes, of course in terms of Infra Structure Noida is far better than Pune. These points always took me near victory, but then they shot back with emotional point “Noida is very near to our native place”. Now, of course I cannot argue on this point and I always loose here but it is not fair.
I do agree with them on this point as this is the only reason that I am in Noida but that doesn’t mean Noida is better than Pune. These people always say ‘X lakh/annum’ in Noida is better than ‘(X+3) lakh/annum’ in Pune as Noida is near to our hometown, but what if they were offered ‘(X+10) lakh/annum’ in Pune. What if they were asked to work onsite for 1-2 years? Will they still stand with their point?? No, they won’t. They will just run away & grab the opportunity. Now, where the hell that emotion went away? Is it sold for ‘(X+10) lakh/annum’.
Sometimes we just try to run away from truth rather than accepting it. Why we are not standing & facing the truth firmly? Why we feel shy or embarrass in doing so? Using our sentiments & emotions is just like those girls who use their tears as their “BRAHMASTRA”.
The main motive of this blog is that when you debate on something then doesn’t use emotional assets. Every city is best in some manner; it is on us that which city suites us according to our priorities.
Monday, November 17, 2008
Wednesday, October 1, 2008
ROCK ON
What is Life????
Ajeeb daastaan hai yeh Kahan shuru kahan khatam
Yeh manzile hai kaunsi Na voh samajh sake na hum
This is what exactly life is, Nobody knows what is next??
It is neither simple nor complex
It is just our perception of facing the situations that makes it simple or complex
It’s always been said that to attain something, sometime people have to compromise lot many things & sometimes these compromises make the journey to the desired future enjoyable and sometimes, people have nothing but to repent for whatever he had done in the name of compromise. Few days back I watched a movie ROCK ON. And this movie rocks on this basic thought only.
This movie has reminded me of some good old days of my life when we friends were arguing on simple simple things. I just miss my school days (Golden Days). We were 3 friends. And we have enjoyed our school days. Today we all are distant away from each other but whenever we are together we had a blast.
But I feel that this movie is in some way resembles to every working individual. It’s not like that, that we don’t have time. It’s just that we are taking things for granted. Life has become more formal nowadays. We carry the baggages somewhere in our heart, but we forgot that this life is very short for tiffs that we had at ant point of time with our dear ones. Friends its just that we don’t have any hard feelings for them, we feel that it will be good if we start talking again, but the point is who will initiate. Doston ye sab bhool jao or phone ghumao, Koi isse bada ya chhota nahin ho jayega. We are in new era in fact technological era, where lot many modes of communication are available. We are just a call away from our loved ones. Socho mat mobile uthao or ghuma do phone…..
And apart from communicating with our loved ones, we should give time to our hobbies. We always make plans like I will learn guitar etc, but never take it seriously. We should spend some time on these kinds of recreational activities.
All I want to say is that FRIENDS be in touch with all your loved & loved ones. And give a serious thought to your hobbies kyonki Ye zindagi bahut chhoti hai DOST
Ajeeb daastaan hai yeh Kahan shuru kahan khatam
Yeh manzile hai kaunsi Na voh samajh sake na hum
This is what exactly life is, Nobody knows what is next??
It is neither simple nor complex
It is just our perception of facing the situations that makes it simple or complex
It’s always been said that to attain something, sometime people have to compromise lot many things & sometimes these compromises make the journey to the desired future enjoyable and sometimes, people have nothing but to repent for whatever he had done in the name of compromise. Few days back I watched a movie ROCK ON. And this movie rocks on this basic thought only.
This movie has reminded me of some good old days of my life when we friends were arguing on simple simple things. I just miss my school days (Golden Days). We were 3 friends. And we have enjoyed our school days. Today we all are distant away from each other but whenever we are together we had a blast.
But I feel that this movie is in some way resembles to every working individual. It’s not like that, that we don’t have time. It’s just that we are taking things for granted. Life has become more formal nowadays. We carry the baggages somewhere in our heart, but we forgot that this life is very short for tiffs that we had at ant point of time with our dear ones. Friends its just that we don’t have any hard feelings for them, we feel that it will be good if we start talking again, but the point is who will initiate. Doston ye sab bhool jao or phone ghumao, Koi isse bada ya chhota nahin ho jayega. We are in new era in fact technological era, where lot many modes of communication are available. We are just a call away from our loved ones. Socho mat mobile uthao or ghuma do phone…..
And apart from communicating with our loved ones, we should give time to our hobbies. We always make plans like I will learn guitar etc, but never take it seriously. We should spend some time on these kinds of recreational activities.
All I want to say is that FRIENDS be in touch with all your loved & loved ones. And give a serious thought to your hobbies kyonki Ye zindagi bahut chhoti hai DOST
Thursday, June 26, 2008
A Meeting with GOD
Don’t get surprised with the Heading; yes it’s true that I got a chance to meet the GOD. Who is GOD? According to me GOD is the supreme power who is always there to help all the helpless people? Similarly there is a couple who is always there to look after individuals who are sick, disabled, forlorn, suffering and deserted by mankind. In our society we people have created an environment where there is no place for the individuals who are sick, disabled, diseased persons no one wants to touch, disabled who are not admitted in to any of the hospital and are left to die on the roadside. They all are the burden of our society but who is to look after them? This couple (Dr B.M. Bharadwaj & Dr Madhuri Bharadwaj) has taken the responsibility of all these people. They came forward and founded a society called “Apna Ghar” for these people. It is called Apna Ghar as it a spiritual place which provides home with all services required for homeless, helpless, deprived, sick and mentally ill persons irrespective of distinction of religious, caste or creed. It is situated in village Bajhera on Agra road which is 8 Km from Bharatpur (Rajasthan).
For the last 7-8 months my daddy is celebrating all the happy moments at this ashram with these people. Be it his BDay or his grandson’s Bday Whenever he came back after visiting this ashram he feel relaxed and always tells me the story of this couple and their work for the society. So I was also curious to visit the place. Last Thursday was my nephew’s first birthday and my dad planned a visit to this place and had lunch there. As I was there in Bharatpur only that day so I accompanied him along with my sister & nephew. We reached there at 11:00 am. When we visit such places then we have a certain picture, questions in our mind. Like what will be the reaction of the people, will they attack us, how cool will be the environment blah blah blah…..
There I met the founders of this ashram. They took us to see the ashram. They explained each & every thing. When I saw the ambience over there I was shocked. They have created an environment where these sick persons would never face and lost their life in harsh painful situation for the lack of help and medical care. They told us that this ashram only look after their medical care but also focuses on all the activities of daily living like brushing teeth, washing, getting dressed, toilet training, nutrition. Every room is shared by two people, every individual have his own bed. The hygienic & nutritious food is served for these people. In this ashram 117 inmates are being served and total capacity of the ashram is 140 as of now. There is no discrimination among the people on any basis. Everybody is treated equally.
Then Dr Uncle told us that it’s the time for the lunch of the inmates. So we reached the place where these people have lunch. I & my sister served the lunch for these people. When I was serving there were some tears in my eyes. I don’t know why, whether that was feeling of embarrassment that what we are doing for our society. Nothing. We all blame our government for this, that government should take some steps for these people but we should ask this to ourselves also that what we our doing. I know everybody cannot be like him but we can help all those who are serving our society by any mean. For me they are like GOD as they have dedicated their whole life for serving our society and helping the people.
In the end I would like to say respect old people at your place, love them. Do not discriminate on religious, caste or creed. Love everyone. Remember that A Smile Is a Curve That Straightens Most Things
For the last 7-8 months my daddy is celebrating all the happy moments at this ashram with these people. Be it his BDay or his grandson’s Bday Whenever he came back after visiting this ashram he feel relaxed and always tells me the story of this couple and their work for the society. So I was also curious to visit the place. Last Thursday was my nephew’s first birthday and my dad planned a visit to this place and had lunch there. As I was there in Bharatpur only that day so I accompanied him along with my sister & nephew. We reached there at 11:00 am. When we visit such places then we have a certain picture, questions in our mind. Like what will be the reaction of the people, will they attack us, how cool will be the environment blah blah blah…..
There I met the founders of this ashram. They took us to see the ashram. They explained each & every thing. When I saw the ambience over there I was shocked. They have created an environment where these sick persons would never face and lost their life in harsh painful situation for the lack of help and medical care. They told us that this ashram only look after their medical care but also focuses on all the activities of daily living like brushing teeth, washing, getting dressed, toilet training, nutrition. Every room is shared by two people, every individual have his own bed. The hygienic & nutritious food is served for these people. In this ashram 117 inmates are being served and total capacity of the ashram is 140 as of now. There is no discrimination among the people on any basis. Everybody is treated equally.
Then Dr Uncle told us that it’s the time for the lunch of the inmates. So we reached the place where these people have lunch. I & my sister served the lunch for these people. When I was serving there were some tears in my eyes. I don’t know why, whether that was feeling of embarrassment that what we are doing for our society. Nothing. We all blame our government for this, that government should take some steps for these people but we should ask this to ourselves also that what we our doing. I know everybody cannot be like him but we can help all those who are serving our society by any mean. For me they are like GOD as they have dedicated their whole life for serving our society and helping the people.
In the end I would like to say respect old people at your place, love them. Do not discriminate on religious, caste or creed. Love everyone. Remember that A Smile Is a Curve That Straightens Most Things
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